Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre
An almost-daily podcast for the State of Mind Community.
Offering ideas and answering questions on how to use your mind for growth, happiness and ultimately peace.
Send us your questions: info@somhypnosis.com
Episodes
160 episodes
Why We DON'T Do The Things We WANT To Do
We explore how mental habits form, why fear sits at the front of the mind, and how reframing, second thoughts, and small wins create real change. We share stories about weight, visibility, and guilt, and end with practical tools for forgiveness...
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Season 3
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Episode 35
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40:37
How To Let Go Of Guilt: From Self-Judgment To Self-Teaching
We explore guilt as an active habit rather than a fixed feeling, then show how to convert mistakes into experiments and repair into action. We contrast guilt with shame, unpack prosperity guilt, and end with a practical technique to let guilt g...
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Season 3
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Episode 34
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42:19
Asking My Higher Mind For Help With My Fear - Part 3
We trace how fear often hides the belief that we are alone and show how self-love, dreams, and a simple bedtime practice can shift that story. A snow day sets the scene for selling a house, facing rejection, and finding calm through the mind as...
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Season 3
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Episode 33
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41:37
How To Reframe Fear And Move Anyway: Part 2
We explore how fear gets programmed, why change triggers it, and how to move forward with clear, practical tools. Selling our house becomes a lens for reframing worry, using imagination with intention, and acting even when fear shows up.
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Season 3
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Episode 32
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37:22
How To Reframe Fear And Move Anyway: Part 1
We unpack why change feels threatening, how loneliness and habit shape resistance, and what it takes to move anyway. We share our plan to sell our home, simplify, and build an online hypnosis platform while using practical tools to reframe fear...
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Season 3
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Episode 31
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45:26
From Distraction To Resolution: Using Relaxation To Think Clearly
We trace a crisp line from relaxation to distraction and show how each shapes mood, decisions, and long-term habits. Emotions are framed as messages that ask for action, turning fear, sadness, anger, guilt, shame, and depression into guides for...
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Season 3
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Episode 30
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46:30
Your Guide to Relaxation
We trace how stress narrows attention and how small, physical shifts open the door to calm. Breath, broad awareness, and simple reframes help the body signal safety so the mind can let go of its grip.• shortest days heightening stress a...
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Season 3
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Episode 29
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43:12
How To Feed Your Mind: Joy Is Your Natural State
We follow a listener’s prompt on feeding the mind and trace how fear, habit, and culture shape our thoughts. We share a simple reframe, practical resets, and ways to turn negative triggers into cues for better thinking and calmer feeling.
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Season 3
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Episode 28
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39:38
Aliens, AI, Blockchain and Your Identity: Going Down The Rabbit Hole Today Folks
We explore how identity acts as the hidden frame behind every choice, then stress test it against UFO disclosure, AI acceleration, digital IDs, CBDCs, and debates over UBI. We ask listeners to loosen rigid self-stories, update faster, and find ...
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Season 3
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Episode 27
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40:11
Inside The Mind: Do You Think In Images, Words Or Something In Between?
We explore how people think in pictures, words, or feelings, and how matching language to that inner style transforms communication, hypnosis, and self-talk. We share client stories, reframes, and simple practices to replace harsh inner chatter...
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Season 3
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Episode 26
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44:12
Thanksgiving and Holiday Expectations, Reframed - A Guide to Better Holidays
We explore how holiday expectations shape our mood, why past experiences script our reactions, and how to reframe family dynamics with compassion. We share practical tools to redirect conversations, lower anxiety, and choose connection over jud...
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Season 3
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Episode 25
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34:20
You Can Change Your Brain And Your Life By Practicing New Thoughts And Movements
We explore how neuroplasticity reframes change, from rebuilding movement after injury to replacing stubborn beliefs with better ones. Stories, tools, and a simple truth tie it together: you weren’t born with your limits, and repeated practice c...
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Season 3
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Episode 24
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37:20
Helping 100,000 Minds Find Peace
We reflect on why our most impactful work teaches people to read emotions as messages, reshape thought habits, and use hypnosis to update the deeper stories that drive behavior. We share our goal to help 100,000 people, the launch of our school...
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Season 3
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Episode 23
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38:05
Understanding Anxiety, Habits, And Control - Part 2 of Anxiety Talks
We trace the line from fear to anxiety, show how freeze becomes a belief of incapability, and share simple tools that restore agency in social settings and morning routines. Clear reframes, practical scripts, and a gentle reminder: what one per...
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Season 3
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Episode 22
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40:46
Changing Anxiety Into A Nothing Burger - Part 1 of Anxiety Talks
We set a clear intention to help 100,000 people manage their minds, then unpack anxiety as practiced interpretation and learnable habit. Emotions become messages that move when we give them a satisfying response, using simple tools to reframe f...
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Season 3
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Episode 21
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44:48
Why Painful Patterns Keep Running Your Life
We explore why painful patterns persist and how tiny choice points let us pause, reinterpret, and respond in fair, healthy ways. From childhood conditioning to anger as a fairness signal, we share tools to break autopilot and install better hab...
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Season 3
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Episode 20
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43:21
Why Your Beliefs Feel Like Facts
We pull apart the difference between facts, opinions, and beliefs, and how identity gets fused to ideas that were never proven. Along the way we examine authority, algorithms, memory, and why healing is an ongoing choice rather than a finish li...
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Season 3
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Episode 19
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40:14
A Simple Guide to Desire, Intention, and Intuition
We trace how confusion and stress open the door to illness and how reframing, intention, and humor can help the body heal. We break down desire, inspiration, intention, and intuition, and share a simple classroom method to update subconscious s...
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Season 3
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Episode 18
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44:09
A Guide To The Life Between Lives | A Hypnosis Perspective
We trace a clear path from daily life to the life between lives and show how hypnosis can safely open that space. The result is practical: less fear, more perspective, and a steadier grip on purpose.• what life between lives is and why ...
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Season 3
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Episode 17
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42:27
What If Gratitude Is The Frequency Of Creation?
Three voices sit by a stormy shore and map gratitude from feeling to habit to creative force. We share a simple heart-hand breathing method, rethink chores and setbacks through appreciation, and explore how expectation and presence shape what s...
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Season 3
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Episode 16
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33:47