Your Questions About Life Between Live's - Part 3

We tackle the biggest Life Between Lives worry: whether hypnosis experiences are “made up” and why deep trance can still feel fully conscious. We also dig into life path questions, guide contact, and how meaning matters more than proving facts. 
• why hypnosis does not mean losing control 
• shifting from “is it real” to “is it loving and useful” 
• how deep trance changes time sense and body awareness 
• why a past life theme can explain a current-life affinity 
• guides and the question “am I on my path” 
• free will and the idea that the path is wide 
• pain, struggle, and heartbreak as expansion 
• using past life regression therapeutically to resolve unfinished business 
• two approaches to reaching Life Between Lives experiences 
• how we invite guides and set clear intentions for highest good 
• meeting other souls and recognizing energy signatures 
• what you remember afterward and why we record sessions 
• bringing 10 to 15 written questions and keeping personal answers private 
• visiting pre-birth planning and why challenges may be chosen 
The link, if you're not part of the infinite mind, the link is in the description below to join.

Transcript

Cold Open By The Lake

SPEAKER_00 0:10

We are on the line.

SPEAKER_01 0:12

And the sun is shining.

SPEAKER_00 0:14

Sun is shining out there.

SPEAKER_01 0:16

It's a little bit cold. There's a little crust of ice out there on the lake. Can stop geese and ducks, so they just stand on it if there's ice.

SPEAKER_00 0:25

Yeah, I should have seen them walking across it yesterday. They're just like gently. They're not fast at all. Very slowly walking across the ice. They don't want to slip just as much as we don't.

SPEAKER_01 0:39

And it was so clear yesterday I thought I would be putting the dock in, but no, I'm not. Yes, anyway.

Life Between Lives Q&A Setup

SPEAKER_00 0:46

Yeah. Yeah. So yeah, today we are in our part three of Life Between Lives. I feel like this is gonna be a four-parter because tomorrow I think we're gonna cover other things as well with it to do with it. But today we're answering number one questions that people usually have about the session, about life between lives. And then we're gonna sort of cover some questions that people have during a session for themselves. Obviously, we're not answering those questions like for them, but we're just gonna bring up what people come to the table with generally. Things like, am I on my path? Or you know, those kind of things. So with that being said, we have some questions lined up from school. And if you have any questions that come to you during this podcast, just throw them in the chat and we will try to get to them. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:51

Okay, I'm in.

The Fear Of Making It Up

Hypnosis Without Losing Control

SPEAKER_00 1:52

You're in. So yeah, I guess uh should I just start with the first question, the biggest question that everyone asks? I I think like literally 99% of people ask this question. Yes. The am I making it up question. What if I'm making it up? What if I go through the whole session and I just feel the whole time that I'm just making things up? Often people will say that they had a session in the past and they didn't feel under, they didn't feel under hypnosis. And so they felt like they were conscious and making things up. What would you say to that, Liz?

Real Versus True Messages

SPEAKER_01 2:35

Um, there's a whole bunch of answers, depending on you know what I perceive to be the openness of the client. The first might be to deal with the how they perceive hypnosis. For me, part of the reason why this is results, this comes at the end of a series of hypnosis sessions, is that they're pretty clear on what it feels like to be hypnotized. It's not what a lot of people think it is most of the time. And although it's very possible in this world for people to become so hypnotized that they lose sort of an awareness of the here and now, that's just not what we do. You know, uh thinking about hypnosis is a broad, broad spectrum, and I won't tell you that there aren't things out there that really sort of grab you and take you deep. You know, uh I always think of you know military training as sort of the extreme in hypnosis, right? You have to sort of break down the self to get a properly compliant soldier, and they do a lot of things in a deep theta state in terms of information and and framing the way you see the world and the way you differentiate between us and the enemy. And I I think that that kind of hypnosis uh exists because I don't ever want to tell somebody that it doesn't exist. But what I do want to say is it's not the hypnosis we do. We're not seeking control. Our goal is always to help you achieve your goals. We consider that sort of the fundamental ethics of hypnosis, is that it is client-driven. And the client says, I want to accomplish this. And it doesn't matter what we think we could do or want to do. What matters is how does what we do serve the client's goals. And so we don't try to trick you into trance, we don't try to use physiology because there are physiological ways to force people into a trance and become, let's just say, less aware. And and that's just hypnosis used in the extreme. We don't do that. Hypnosis for us is a guiding into a deeper state. For some people, they go into a deep state pretty easily. After practice, they go into a very deep state. And it's that delicate balance as a hypnotist. I'm trying to, I'm trying to get you from sort of an alert awareness to a deep state where you don't lose your awareness, but you certainly lose any focus on the external. You're completely focused on what's going on in your mind. And when you get there, you're getting to a place, I think, that there's massive time warping. You've lost any sense of time. Your body is unimportant. And you're you don't see yourself as a body, you don't feel yourself as a body. When I'm inducing for this kind of thing, I always include suggestions like, you know, we do a lot of body relaxation, and then I say, and we don't need the body for the next little while. It can just sit here safe and sound and conduct itself the way it should to stay healthy. I even put on a couple of suggestions about this is a time for the body to do extra work to get you nice and healthy for what's coming afterwards. And so there's this mental shift of a well-practiced hypnosis subject who's going very, very deep and they've lost their sense of the external. They're completely focused on the internal, they've lost their sense of body, they've lost their sense of time because now they're completely in their mind. And then as I go through that, I use a lot of multi-sensory uh deepeners, which is, you know, you can smell it, you can feel it, you can you can sense it, getting them deep, deep into the experience of inside their mind. Right. So for me, this is this is the first part, right? So then if they're a practiced subject, they're not going to experience a loss of control, they're going to experience deep, deep focus and an awareness of something more. And in that process, more often than not, they convince themselves they are they it is way too real for them, for them to have any doubt about its veracity, its meaningfulness. So for me, it's about the depth of trance, it's about the focus of the mind, it's about in enhancing the experience within their mind, and then they they really go with the experience. But when you hand yourself over to the experience, it really changes the way you experience. There's no resistance, there's no fighting it, there's no doubting it. We get past the doubts as we get deeper and deeper into hypnosis. So then the question is, is it real? Well, I don't get that question much after trance, I get it before trance. Yeah, because they're pretty much right there through it in trance, and they don't have a lot of doubts afterwards. But every once in a while they might say something to me like, you know, how do I know that that's true? So it's not so much about it being real anymore, it's about it being true. The message is, are they true? And I have a couple answers to that. The first answer is, is it loving? Is it caring? Is it forgiving? Is it encouraging? Is it supportive? Is it clearing the path for you to move forward and feel really fully engaged in your life? Because to me, those are the major signs of truth. When it's about things that they're concerned about or that they they, in terms of doubting their obligations or their response to the messages they get when they say, is this something I should really do? Right, I always remind them that they have choice and that of all the things that they could imagine or create or make up while they're deep in hypnosis, right? Somehow this is what came up. So out of the millions and millions of possibilities, why this? Right? Why is this the thing that's showing itself?

SPEAKER_02 9:54

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 9:55

And for many of them, you know, that's that's all it takes. I think that the experience itself is convincing, that it requires deep, deep hypnosis to get past the conscious mind's interference of thinking, why this and why did he say that, and what's going on here, and what does he expect me to say, and all those things where the conscious mind interferes with hypnosis? So is it real? Well, my final point would be there's no such thing as real. You know, what's what is is experience. That's what we really know that you have. We all have experiences. That's that's as real as it gets for us. Does this mean it has absolute truth? I'm not sure that I even want to engage in absolute truth. What I want to engage in is an experience that is loving, that is inspiring, and that is beyond the doubts of the person experiencing it.

SPEAKER_00 11:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 11:02

Babbled there, sorry.

Greece Regression And Love Of Greece

SPEAKER_00 11:04

No, I think, you know, the background needs to be explained before the question is answered. Yeah, when people come out of hypnosis, they realize that there is no feeling of being under. I think people think, you know, I should feel like I'm maybe under anesthetic or something because the word under sort of translates to that. And it's so important. And I don't know, it doesn't matter anyway, but like I don't know if all hypnotists do a pre-talk. But it's so it's so important to talk to your client beforehand, to let them know that it doesn't, you're not unconscious here, right? You're not gonna feel like you can't concentrate or know what's happening or anything like that. But anyway, I think it's always fascinating when people come out of hypnosis after a journey like this. And, you know, as we joke along the years, their first quest or their first saying is, wow, that was weird. And the second saying is usually, uh, if they say it out loud, this changed my life. This changed my life. I had somebody the other day that she was really, she she is an archaeologist, and she thought when she went into her, we did a past life first and then life between, but it was so fascinating because she went to Greece, which is like where she she has an affinity for in archaeology. And so she thought, oh, hands down, I'm making this up because I love Greece, right? So she's thinking this during the session. She's even saying it out loud, like halfway through the session. I think, I don't know about this because I I love Greece. But interestingly enough, she sent me an email yesterday with a little picture that she had seen on YouTube after the session. And it was showing a little street in Greece and people milling about and shops on one side and these types of houses on the other side that don't look like houses, but you know, in the sense of like nowadays, they don't look modern at all. But anyway, she had never seen this before. And then she said in her email, she explained, wow, like this is exactly what I saw in my in my past life regression. And I I had I knew it was grease, but I had no idea that it looked like this. And so that was just a lovely confirmation.

SPEAKER_01 13:41

But just if I might comment that I don't know this client, I I probably never will. But the for me, it's so common for us to get cause and effect backwards, right? To say, oh, I'm gonna go into a past life in Greece because I love Greece, is to get it backwards. I love Greece in this life because in a past life I loved Greece.

SPEAKER_03 14:07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 14:07

Right? So it's to me, it's a it's not a it's not a, oh, because I love Greece, I went to a past life in Greece. Why did I go to that past life because I love Greece? It's the other way around. Why do I have such an affinity in this life for Greece when I'm not living in Greece? Like what's my fascination? Where does that come from? Why do I have this desire to study and learn and know more and go there? Well, what's that affinity out of the 200 countries in the world? That's the one I want to go out of all the different regions and and climates and and and geographies of the world. Why is that the one that draws me so much? So to me, it's it's much more. Well, of course, you're going to go to a past life in Greece, because that will explain why you're so passionately in love with Greece in this life.

SPEAKER_00 14:58

Yeah, and that's uh that really stood out to her. And it felt very real. And then in the chat here, we've got, I've been exploring some of this recently through a session, and what stood out most wasn't even the details, it was the feeling of expansion and movement. It felt very real. And that is across the board, really, with people feeling that in different ways, of course, deeply or lightly. You know, there's a whole spectrum there of what people bring back or feel, but it is like we said yesterday, this this immersive experience that you're not just reading about and wondering about, it it logs itself in a different part of the mind, I feel like.

SPEAKER_01 15:41

You know, but I do want to get to the I might even say it's not so much that it logs itself in a different part of the mind, it comes from a different part of the mind, a part of the mind that we don't normally use, but is there for us that we could access. Totally. Obviously, we do access.

SPEAKER_00 15:57

Yeah, totally. Absolutely. I'm gonna get to some of the questions in in the school, the infinite mind.

SPEAKER_01 16:04

We should ask the other big question.

SPEAKER_00 16:06

What's that?

SPEAKER_01 16:08

Am I on my life path?

SPEAKER_00 16:10

Oh, yeah. So that yeah.

SPEAKER_01 16:11

So what happens a lot in in these sessions, well, what happens every time in these sessions is when we get to the other side, we call upon helpers of some kind.

SPEAKER_03 16:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 16:23

Typically it's guides or people that have crossed over. And what's interesting is for me, sometimes those guides are relatives that didn't seem all that important to us in this life, but they're right there for us for this. Like, what is old Uncle Henry doing there? Or, you know, Aunt Mabel, what what why is she here of all people, right? But what happens is we we call upon helpers, and those helpers, often being guides, have knowledge and awareness of the planning process of this life. And although some people, when they get on the other side, they start to have some recollection, they start to, of their own accord, remember, you know, just through the familiarity of the kind of imagery they're going through, they start to really accept that they're much more than this body and this person in this time place. They they often start to become aware of the kinds of feelings and goals that they had for this life. And they almost always get met by guides. And those guides almost always they get to ask that question, am I on my path? And I have never ever heard a guide say no, have you?

SPEAKER_00 17:53

Not no. No, I don't think so. Yeah, yeah, probably what you were just about to say. Sometimes we might have a path that would be a little better for us. Or if we think about it in timeline terms, maybe there's something out there that you're you're reaching towards and having a little trouble, and it it just takes a little movement or a little next step. Like, what is that to get there? But generally, like if you're alive right now and you're living and you're going through the motions of life, apparently you're on your path. You're on your path.

SPEAKER_01 18:38

I've had them say, you know, do more of this. Or I encourage you to look at that or be more aware of what's going on there.

SPEAKER_02 18:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 18:47

For me, these are just prompts to get you moving, you know, eat more in line with what you probably had had in mind when you set about this life. But they're not, you know, you can't. I I I think from what I've heard and I've read and what I've experienced, you can't really not be on your path because it's pretty wide. The path is pretty wide, and it's very open to your choices along the way.

SPEAKER_00 19:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 19:22

And that that is actually the most important thing, is that you you get to make those choices. And even if you don't make the choice you you planned on making, right, this was always an alternative.

SPEAKER_02 19:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 19:39

And because it was always an alternative and always a possibility, that means it's it's part of the path.

Even Pain Can Be Expansion

SPEAKER_00 19:46

Yeah. Something came through a couple weeks ago for somebody that was not new to me, but it was said in a different way. Even the pain is expansion. Even the hardships are expansion. Oftentimes we go over there and people want to hear the lessons, like what am I learning in this life? Or, you know, that kind of thing. And we want to hear, well, you're learning about love and you're learning about this, like light stuff. So many times people's lessons are about struggle or power or pain or feeling emotion or heartbreak, or like those are things that we sign up for. Not just that stuff, but they are part of the process. And yeah, it's just interesting how these lives are about coming here to experience the emotional roller coaster and expanding through it. And I do believe that it is the choices, the free will choices that we make during the pain that creates our life.

SPEAKER_01 21:04

Yeah, I mean, uh a couple of things. First thing is, you know, I've heard it said and it just makes too much sense to me. You know, we didn't come here to experience, you know, sunshine and rainbows. If we wanted sunshine and rainbows, we'd have just stayed where we were.

SPEAKER_03 21:25

Right?

SPEAKER_01 21:25

We didn't, we didn't come here to experience that. And so don't be surprised that life has these difficult aspects to it, difficult relationships to it. You know, and and one of the most fundamental difficulties, and this is where we find we go a lot in regression, especially when we're doing past life stuff, is we we spend a lot of time talking about death, right? Death moments, transition moments like that. And for the most Part, you know, there's I'm not trying to be negative, but death is a hard moment, right? It reminds me of an old George Carlin joke. He says, I'm I'm wondering what's going to happen with all these health food fanatics. I see them someday lying in hospital bed, dying of nothing. The idea being we all die, and we all die of something, right? And we can try to avoid everything that's negative, but eventually we go. And that's probably whether it's, you know, I wish for us all quick, but it's still probably a scary experience.

SPEAKER_00 22:43

Yeah. Oftentimes, if I may add to that, oftentimes, so when we're going through a past life, it's only natural also for people thinking, I thought this was about life between. It's natural to talk about past life regression while we're talking about life between because of the transition there that always happens into the life between. So what I find with clients is the contracts or the energy that they're pulling into this life is oftentimes solidified. It can be changed. I don't want to make it sound like it can't be changed there, but sort of pulled from the death into the afterlife or afterlife, life between, and then pulled, chosen to be pulled into this life. So to give you an example, someone lives their life, some, you know, let's say good things happen, some bad things happen, their past life, and then at the moment of death, they feel like they didn't do a good enough job in that life, or something like that. They felt like they had let their loved one down or something. And so they they pass on with that feeling of guilt or shame. And oftentimes when I'm working with clients, I have to, I hope people can follow me here, but I have to get them to separate from that soul body and be themselves. Like, say I'm working with Jane Doe. Jane Doe, separate from that old body, that soul body that you came out of that past life with, and now work with them to help them know that it's okay. It's okay. You we can move into the light, we can move into the light together, because a lot of times it can be a struggle at the end to feel like you're lovable for the light, but you are always, always. Anyway, I hope that was understandable.

SPEAKER_01 24:52

Yeah, what when we when we deal with past life stuff, I think it's important for hypnotists to remember that sometimes we into past lives intentionally, and that's a really fun exploratory experience. But sometimes we go into it therapeutically, and that means that there's some unfinished business. And so when you find yourself back at those moments in the past life where the unfinished business is now, you know, leaking its way into this life, it's really important to resolve that in the past life context, but also there's a whole lot of value in bringing them forward to the death moment of that life. So that past life has a death moment. Bring them forward to that death moment. And before they get to move past that death moment, just review what are the lessons, what are the things they they they were meant to have learned, and make sure those lessons are in place. Because then you can be done with that past life basically forever. You can be finished with it as it relates to the the life they're trying to live right now. The therapy finishes in that moment that they're clear that that life was completed, that they've learned the lesson. Didn't matter that they learned it now. What matters is that the lesson is learned and they can now move forward into this life free of that lesson, aware of that lesson, and moving through the new lessons.

SPEAKER_00 26:19

Yeah. Now, if someone's doing just a life between lives, we don't we don't go into a past life usually. Sometimes we'll peek into a past life for a few moments of healing or understanding, uh, stuff like that.

Two Ways To Enter LBL

SPEAKER_01 26:34

I just want to add that some some hypnotists do. Some hypnotists, their technique is past life, then through the past life into the life between. And and for some hypnotists, that's the technique that they use. There's again, there's therapeutic value to that, but it's also time-consuming, in my opinion, and can be somewhat distracting if there's unfinished business in that past life. Yeah, absolutely. And if the goal is to experience the life between lives, that can somehow be well, just what's the right word? Distraction. With that said, I always I I shan't say always, I usually use the bridge. What do you use?

SPEAKER_00 27:17

I use a beautiful place. We start off in a beautiful place as the beginning of the journey. And let's say that's a beach for somebody, we anchor into that beautiful place. You feel the sand under your feet, the sunshine on your face, the sounds of birds, maybe, or the waves, and whatever that beautiful place is for the person, I don't make it up for them. But we start there, and then I'll have their guides or whoever's well, I should say, before we bring in the guides, we ground, we develop like what I've been using as like a crystal around you or a big pyramid of light around you. And what this does is it sort of sets the tone for the session to only be speaking to those for your highest good, right? Only bringing through higher self and guides and whoever's there for your highest good that day. So anyway, after that, we I say to them something to the effect of it's different all the time, of course, but like something, something to the effect of, okay, now send out the intention to bring your guides here or whoever's meant to work with you right now and notice them. Notice them coming to you. Notice a feeling, notice what they look like if if they're imaginative. Do they have form? And then we get into how many are there? Male, female, other, galactic, like it could be anything, light. Some people just see light. Some people just feel, oh, I feel like there's a male presence or female presence. And so we try to open up that world. And then I always ask, is it okay today for so-and-so to go into the life between? Only a few times have they said no. And and then we just spend the session in that beautiful place with them asking questions. Almost always I ask, okay, now that we're gonna go into the light, what do you notice happening? Well, they're taking my hand. Okay. So go with them into the light. If you feel comfortable doing that, go with them into the light. Someone recently was a little nervous going there. So their their guide was so nice with them. Like, okay, let's just stop here. We don't have to go through. They eventually went through, maybe an hour into the session, but they they just had all these stopping points where she just would relax into the experience with her guide. But the guide was so sweet, like so nice. And then she had a team of guardians that came in as well into one of the stopping points before going in. But anyway, that's that's sort of where I go with it. But you have a bridge, you were saying.

Bridge Method And Expansive Lights

SPEAKER_01 30:18

Well, I think most hypnotists, you know, use the happy place technique, which is just holding ground, a place to do the work. And for me, always the happy place includes, you know, a beautiful meadow stream that runs through the whole thing down to an ocean, and and always, you know, it includes lots of nature. But it's always over the left shoulder and a bit behind where we put the bridge. Because it's just mentally, for a lot of us, that's where it is. It's not something in our present vision, and it's not in our dominant vision side. And so we it's almost like a surprise. Oh, geez, look, there's the bridge. The bridge almost always has a veil down the middle of it. You actually have to cross the bridge, and it is that moving through the veil into the other side. So we go to the bridge and we do that request. Can we cross the bridge? And we trust their, I just trust their instincts. Yeah. Can we cross the bridge? Some people have have other, you know, insights and gifts, and I'll ask them before we even start the session: do you want to go? Are you ready to go? Do you feel like we can go? And I have had clients say no, and then we just do something else. But we cross the bridge, and I do some things to plant them on the other side. The first is I ask them, you know, how big is the space? And it's almost always goes on forever. It's huge. And I'm gonna say, you know, uh, how many, or I'll say something like, you're going to see lights. How many lights do you see? And they'll almost always say, Oh, I can't count them, thousands of lights. Right? And then I will give them the suggestion that those are other beings. And it just clicks. At that point, they're in this expansive place where all these lights moving around are beings. They notice themselves being light. And then we just invite out of those thousands of beings, whoever wants to come forward to come forward. Almost always it's guides and pass-on family members. Sometimes it's multiples. I I've had situations where like a whole team of like 10, 12 people come forward, uh, most of which don't do any talking, but they're present. And sometimes it's just two or three. Sometimes it's just one, but then there are others around. We notice others around, but there's always one that will engage. And then that's the process where the conversation begins.

Meeting Souls Recognizing Energy Signatures

SPEAKER_00 33:09

So I think at this point we'll answer a few questions in the in the infinite mind. When doing this kind of session, will I meet other souls?

SPEAKER_01 33:19

Yep.

SPEAKER_00 33:23

Yes, you will. Whether those are again like guides or uh, you know, support systems, uh, teams, other souls being uh maybe someone that you knew in this life. Oh my gosh, the list goes on. I don't even know.

SPEAKER_01 33:43

Uh past loves one, past love ones.

SPEAKER_00 33:46

Yeah. Yeah. Jumping off of that question, will I recognize anyone from my past or present? Yeah, absolutely. So I want you to think about try this, try this briefly with me. If you were to obviously, if you're in a safe space to do this, close your eyes. And think about somebody that you know. And instead of thinking about them visually, notice their energy. And I bet you their energy is different to you from somebody else's energy, right? They everybody has sort of an energy signature, as we like to call it. So you can open your eyes now, but you're gonna notice that everybody s feels a little differently and you can recognize them almost immediately. And it becomes even more easy to recognize when you're in that hypnosis. So even if all you're seeing is light, like light forms, light energy bodies, if I were to say to you, well, who does that feel like in your life? Who does that feel like in your life? Chances are you're gonna know right away, oh, that feels like my Aunt Jane or one of my kids or something like that, usually comes through. Just give a g give a thumbs up if that made sense in the chat.

SPEAKER_01 35:13

I think it's important to realize that you're not likely, I've never seen it, you're not likely gonna bump into somebody who's in your life now. You're not gonna see their spirit self on the other side, you're engaged in something on this side, and so it would it would not be productive to interact with them at this point. It's mostly, yeah, it's mostly gonna be somebody who's passed on and a guide that is engaged in helping you move through this life.

SPEAKER_02 35:48

Yeah, exactly.

Remembering Sessions Recording The Journey

SPEAKER_00 35:50

Yeah, this is a big one. Actually, this is this is another big question that I get beforehand is will I remember the session? Yes, you will remember the session. But imagine imagine going over to your couch and laying down and daydreaming for almost two hours. Chances are you're not going to remember all the little details. That's why we record it, which is also a question. Yes, it's recorded and you can listen to it afterwards. But details are lost when we're that caught up in our imagination. The big stuff, yes, you bring forward and you remember. But it's always nice to have that recording afterwards to go, oh yeah, I remember that. I remember that. I forgot about that.

SPEAKER_01 36:37

So I'm gonna get abstract here. So consider that everything is energy, and that energy takes all kinds of forms from the very physical to the very ethereal through its vibrational nature, through its its frequency and its amplitude. It's vibrational. What you will remember absolutely is the vibrational meaning of what you experience. Yes, you will experience internally a shift in your context, as I always use the word, the way you see things. To have this experience almost always calms us down, it almost always lightens us a little bit. You know, people say lighten up, and that's really what happens. You really do lighten up, you get less serious about things, you start to see the transient nature of this life, you start to see the safety that you came here being safe, that you'll leave here being safe, that you don't start here, you don't end here. And all of that has the vibrational meaning to you as a person that you will carry with you no matter what. It's very, very impactful in terms of the vibrational meaning. So even if you don't remember exactly what did I do then, and you can outline the steps, you very much will remember the highlights and their meaning to you. And quite frankly, you're never going to forget that.

Bringing Written Questions And Boundaries

SPEAKER_00 38:17

Yeah. Yeah. If I have specific questions I want to ask, can I write those down for you to ask for me?

SPEAKER_01 38:25

That's exactly what we want you to do.

SPEAKER_00 38:27

Yeah. So if I'm having, just to give an example, if I'm having a life between lives session with somebody and it's a full, it's a full session that's life between lives, I'll usually ask people to come to the table with 10 to 15 questions in priority order. And because I would never expect you to try to remember all your questions, especially in hypnosis, right? Because you're just immersed in the experience and and not looking for all these questions. So I'll I'll get somebody to send me their questions the night before or the day of, and then I'll have it on my screen behind me, and we'll just be going through them when it when the time arises during the session that I feel like, oh, okay, this might be a good time to ask this question. I'll say, okay, Jane, go ahead and ask this question. And then they ask the question, and then they receive the answer in some way, shape, or form. And then I'll ask them moments later, okay, what came back? What did you notice? How did you receive the question? Uh, the answer, sorry. And and they'll say it out loud so it's on tape, right? And so they can listen to it later.

SPEAKER_01 39:41

Yeah. So sometimes sometimes I'll have a list of questions and I'll I'll say, you know, ask your guide if it's time if I can ask some questions on your behalf. And they'll say yes, and I'll start with a question, and then I'll get interrupted, and they'll say, Well, that's not important now. I understand. Like just being there causes an incredible shift in awareness. And so sometimes the questions become irrelevant. Also, you know, we like to have it in the recording. I like to have it in my notes, the answers to these questions. But sometimes I'll say, you know, uh, do you do you want to share that with me so I can write it down or it can be on the recording? And it might be something just very personal. And when you're in that state, you get to say, no, no, I'm keeping this one to myself. Uh you don't have to explain.

SPEAKER_03 40:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 40:41

You just say, no, I'm not going to say this out loud. It was something that I needed for me. I got an answer. You know, this is very, very, you know, I'll always say, you know, go ahead and have a conversation about this, right? Because questions get answers that lead to questions, they get answers that lead to questions. And I've it's very common for me to sit in my chair and watch my clients, you know, eyebrows move and their facial expressions change. And you can just tell they're engaged in a conversation with somebody.

SPEAKER_02 41:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:17

And I just, I just stay out of it. I just say, go for it. Have the conversation what you need. And then I'll say again, is there anything that you want to summarize or share so we can write it down and have it have it there for you? And sometimes, you know, it's just, well, he's saying this or she's saying this, and and that's that's enough. But it is once you're there, once you're on the other side, once you're comfortable face to face with your guide and your mind, because that's where they're going to meet you, now you're in a position to just engage and explore. And at that point, often that's just, you know, is there anything else? Is there anything else you want to ask them? Is there anything that's come up that you want to ask them?

SPEAKER_00 42:01

Yeah. Sometimes they have a hard time putting the answer into words. And I'll just say, okay, it doesn't matter. Do you feel the answer? Do you know? Because I mean it's nice to have it on audio, but I don't need to know their answer, right? So I'll often say, okay, as long as you know it, that's the most important, as long as you feel it, that's the most important.

SPEAKER_01 42:23

Well, we when we start to get to the end of the questions, I I will also um speak directly to the guide or the person there and say, please, you know, you have an awareness of what they're going through, where they're headed, what's coming up for the next little while. Are there any messages you want to give them, any reminders you want to get give them to get them moving in a wonderful and safe direction? And that often results in some really lovely stuff.

SPEAKER_02 42:54

Yeah. Um, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 42:56

And that's when we get selfish. That we have another question, you know, what are the questions we ask?

SPEAKER_00 43:01

Yeah. So there's, I guess, two more questions. So that question from the school, which is the questions we ask. I don't do that really.

SPEAKER_01 43:10

So I I don't really know how to answer that, but you go ahead and answer what well for me uh it's always about I'm always trying to get better as a hypnotist. And so for me, the questions I ask are always about my technique.

SPEAKER_03 43:26

Right.

SPEAKER_01 43:27

Right. And and I'll ask, are there places that we need to go on the other side for their edification? And then so I I really basically hand it over to the to the guide. And the guide might take them someplace, might not. The guide might say, Nope, we're fine right here. The guide, I'll say, you know, how was my technique? What could I do better? Then sometimes I'll I'll get an answer, and sometimes get to it was fine. Don't worry about it. And and that That kind of stuff. And then, you know, I'll just simply say, is there any message for me at this moment to be helpful to them? Once I had them say, gonna need another session.

SPEAKER_03 44:18

Going to need another session.

SPEAKER_01 44:21

Okay, I can do that. But, you know, generally it's I call it selfish because it's about me and they're meeting their guides about them. But it's not really selfish, it's much more about my understanding to be better at this. I think that our repertoire, our ability to hypnotize and guide people is a function of what we've come to know, what we've learned by doing this, what we've learned by experiencing it. And so anything that expands that makes me a better hypnotist.

SPEAKER_02 44:55

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 44:55

Makes me more prepared for the next one. And that's the kind of stuff that I really go after is how to do this better.

SPEAKER_02 45:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 45:04

And what are places people should go. But mostly what I've learned is hand it over to the guide once they make contact.

Pre Birth Planning And Choosing Challenges

SPEAKER_00 45:12

Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah. We are sort of uh someone brought this up and I love it. We are sort of the rutter on a boat. We are guy, we are guiding in the background. We're we're steering a little bit, but yeah, the guide, the higher self, they're sort of in control, not control, like taking you over or anything, but like they're the ones sort of bringing things to you and showing you things. And and if we need to go somewhere specifically, then we guide and we, you know, do that. But I think before wrapping up today, we'll get to this question. In Life Between Lives, can we also go back to our life planning session to ask about this life and why we chose what we chose? Yes, all the time. That's probably the for me at least, the biggest place that we go to is the pre-birth planning place, as humans like to call it.

SPEAKER_01 46:11

I find that the guides will just explain it to them.

SPEAKER_00 46:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 46:14

I find that that question of what was I planning on doing, it comes out long before you go to another location. But the the truth is, if you read Michael Newton's work and some other people who have done this kind of thing, absolutely you can go and sort of re-experience those events that took place prior to you engaging into this life. But my experience is, you know, when I say, Are we can we go to the place where you're playing? Can we go where the place where they chose the body? You know, the answer is more often than not, don't need to. We don't need to. And and for me, again, it's it's you know, my approach tends to be this is a culminating hypnotic experience at the end of a series of sessions that were therapeutic in nature. Whereas Hillary is going to, she's done way more of you know people just wanting to explore and going into these sessions for the sole purpose of just exploring this realm and going further. The answer absolutely, depending on your guide, depending on your state of hypnosis, depending on you know the forces, what's a better word for that? The intentions of those that you're meeting. Because they can say, no, we're not going there. They can say no, this is not part of what we're doing. You know, that but you can, and that's Michael Newton's work. He he took his clients for the sole purpose of exploring and having them describe to him all the things that were over there and how the whole thing works. But, you know, my guess is that was his plan, right? That was his sole journey was to be the guy who brings a lot of this stuff at this time into the common consciousness that we are eternal beings, that we plan these lives, that we don't do it because it's all fun and games, that we anticipate difficulties, interpersonal difficulties, can you know, situational difficulties, and physical difficulties. These are all things that we plan into it to have that experience. And Michael Newton was bringing all of those ideas forward into the the collective consciousness, you know. I won't say for the first time, but for the first time in a long while. And so I think his work was to take people, and I believe that his clients came forward to assist in that. Yeah, that's the word, that occupation, that vocation. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 49:07

Yeah. So that's a lot. Hopefully that wasn't too overwhelming for people. But yeah, what I think, I think tomorrow. Oh, I had it in my mind now. I forget. I think tomorrow we're still gonna cover Life Between Lives. Oh, you're welcome. But we'll get into something else. I'm forgetting what it was. I had it in my mind this morning, but anyway.

SPEAKER_01 49:30

I'm hoping we provoked some more questions too. Yes, and and don't, you know, don't ever stop asking questions. Please keep asking questions.

SPEAKER_00 49:39

Oh my gosh, yes, we love questions.

SPEAKER_01 49:41

That's what moves us forward and makes sure that it is useful to you.

SPEAKER_00 49:46

I want to mention coming up this week, we're in the sort of the final week of March in the Infinite Mind. We've got on Saturday or sorry, Sunday, we've got a Zentangle, which is a fun meditative experience. No art background required. It's just sort of laying pen on paper and uh drawing and meditating. So we'd love to have you there. On Thursday, I think it's Thursday, I have I'm taking people on a galactic journey. I usually take people on one-on-one for galactic journeys, but we're gonna go for a journey through the universe this Thursday in the school all together and see what comes to people. What's coming to me is to explain that a little bit. Okay, so galactic journey is think about the idea of starseeds, this idea of, you know, maybe we've been another being on another planet, experiencing a different reality. And so that is where we are going. Les has some things coming up this week too. I know I posted about them. Les, you have, let me see here. Sorry, guys. Also on Thursday during the day. I think guilt is one of those emotions that is just so important to address. Right? It's one of those ones that really gets us. So I think that's really important. And then on Saturday, he's got forgiveness is freedom. Forgiveness is freedom, which I think is just so important as well.

SPEAKER_01 51:37

I think so.

SPEAKER_00 51:38

You think so?

SPEAKER_01 51:41

But yeah, so yeah, guilt is a uh is a thing that we do to ourselves, yeah, and needs to be reconsidered as to its value. And the flip side of guilt, right, is uh accusation and blame.

SPEAKER_00 51:58

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 52:00

And so dealing with that side of things, like you know, we can't change the past, so what the heck are we gonna do with it? If you could see yourself as being totally unaffected by the past, so that you are completely free to make any choice at all from the infinite number of choices, then you could be completely free. And that's what forgiveness gives us.

SPEAKER_00 52:31

Yeah. So hope to see you there. The link, if you're not part of the infinite mind, the link is in the description below to join. And yeah, maybe we'll see you there. Okay, everyone, have a wonderful day, and we will see you later.